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Let's Chat About Homelessness: Stepping out.

I will be living on the streets of Decatur, homeless for the next 30 days, taking an in-depth look at homelessness in this area, and revisiting places nearly a decade after having done this before.

Day 1
I wonder how many people have been in this position...for real.
This was always the moment I had wondered about, right here, right now.  This moment; the moment where one steps out the door for the last time, not knowing whether they will ever walk back into a door of their own.  I always wonder about the soft click of the lock, and what that means.
I am coming back to it in 30 days.  No amount of role playing (which is essentially what this project is; role playing) can prepare you for that feeling; not knowing.  No matter what, I know that I have my keys right in my pocket.
Last night I closed the door and walked to the MARTA station with just about everything in a bag and the warm(-ish) air was inviting.  There was a hint of spring.
How do you start being homeless?  Why do you start being homeless?  What leads to having to step out into the void?
These are all questions I would like to get a semblance of an answer to, but at that moment, it became about something simpler.  Where was I going to sleep last night?
It was then that you start looking around at who might be able help.  Let's forget for a moment that I have several friends who would let me crash on a couch or something.  Riding the MARTA from Chamblee to Decatur, I saw several people sleeping.
I could sleep on the train?
No, because I do not like people being around while I sleep.  I wonder if that is something that a lot of people experience.  If they do, then how long does it take for that to go away or for them to solve it without a choice of where they are going to sleep?

I keep watching people watch me.  My gear is still new enough to look like I am headed to the airport or going camping for the weekend.  I splurged on a new sleeping bag.  They don't know that.  People think I am homeless, I am sure.  Yes, it doesn't take much to convey that.

The Decatur Marta station is a sparse place this time of night.  People are getting off work at various places and headed in different directions.

Choosing an area is a hard part.  It has to be public-ish.  I would notice a man walking through my neighborhood at this time of night with a bundle of stuff so it is best to steer clear of the neighborhoods.

At my height and weight, I am not too concerned about a lot but this first night, I think it best to avoid people for right now.

I found a nice little space off the main roads and dark and wooded.  I rolled out my brand new sleeping bag. There are lights everywhere.  Cars are driving by.  There are voices.  I start to drift off, with heavy eyelids then I hear the crack of a twig nearby...




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